We often underestimate the power of our words in our marriages.

The other person is always around and so it's easy to speak to them as familiar, just there, or perhaps slightly annoying. Herein is opportunity for some fine-tuning. An opportunity to tweak something that can reap huge dividends in an...

As I get older, my wife and I are in our 40's (yup, I know, soooo old!) time seems to pick up speed. As we go through Christmas preparations I'm thinking - weren't we just doing this?!

In thinking thru how to live a full and satisfying life, I've come across a little piece of wisdom (from this book...

There's an ancient text (okay, the Bible) that declares, empowered from a spiritual place, it's possible for "old things to pass away and all things to be made new". 

In our lives we tap into this capacity to create change when we set goals to change something, or set New Years resolutions to capit...

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Q. What percentage of your marriage's success is in your hands?

Turns out that "what you focus on grows" and this is true in marriage world as much as in any area of life. The thing of it is though, it's tricky to focus on something so present so all the time.

And wha...