"I just can't stand it when he/she does..."

"I love my spouse, but when he/she..."

"Everything goes good until he/she..."

"I just really wish he/she would change the way..."

These are the refrains of marriage partners caught in a trap - the trap of trying, or wanting, to change their spouse in s...

Ever been faced with a behavior, character issue, or problem in your spouse that bugs you? We're probably all too familiar with the dynamic. You maybe hide your distaste and kinda inwardly stew about it, or you subtly nag, or you outright criticize.

What if, however, there's a better way? Try this:...

The idea of continually feeding your marriage is key. It makes sense: what you input into your life in any area will have an effect how that area of your life plays out. 

What we don't realize often times is that no intentional input doesn't mean no input at all.

Rather, we're bombarded with input...

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Q. What percentage of your marriage's success is in your hands?

Turns out that "what you focus on grows" and this is true in marriage world as much as in any area of life. The thing of it is though, it's tricky to focus on something so present so all the time.

And wha...